We’ve all felt that moment of sheer panic when we cannot find our keys or wallet. It is frustrating and disorienting. Now, picture this happening multiple times per day, accompanied by an overwhelming feeling of confusion and fear. This situation is a common part of life for seniors with dementia. To add to the stress, the senior with dementia may often be hiding the objects themselves, commonly in places you’re not likely to look.
What causes dementia-related hiding? There are several key conditions that may be at play.
- Reduced organizational skills: It might become challenging for someone with dementia to understand the purpose of everyday objects or recall where they go. Hiding items can be a misdirected attempt at organization, one way to manage the overwhelming task of keeping an eye on their environment.
- Suspicion and paranoia: Dementia often brings about an increased sense of suspicion and paranoia. The person may become suspicious of those around them, fearing that others might steal their belongings. This increased sense of mistrust can prompt them to hide their belongings in order to protect them.
- Need for engagement: Rummaging and hiding might be a kind of engagement or activity for someone with dementia. As they lose the ability to engage in more complex activities, these simpler actions can provide a sense of purpose and occupation. These activities can fill their time and offer a sense of accomplishment.
- Loss of memory and confusion: Hiding items may be a symptom of the confusion and memory loss that accompany dementia. As memory fades, an individual with dementia may no longer recall where they placed their belongings, leading them to hide items in what seems like a safe spot. This action can give them a feeling of security and help alleviate their anxiety about losing things.
Understanding the reasons behind dementia-related hiding can help you address the situation with patience and empathy. Try:
- Creating a safe and structured environment: Make sure that their living space is organized and free of hazards. Consistency in how furniture and personal items are arranged can minimize confusion and make it easier for them to find what they need.
- Maintaining a routine: A predictable daily routine can offer a feeling of security and lower anxiety. Regularly scheduled meals, rest times, and activities can help create a structured environment that feels safe and familiar.
- Labeling common hiding spots: Clearly label storage areas, drawers, and cupboards. This can act as a helpful reminder of where things belong and can lessen the possibility of items being hidden in unusual places.
- Providing engaging, meaningful activities: Keep their minds and hands busy with activities that are suitable for their abilities and interests. Simple tasks like sorting, folding, or working with sensory objects can be both calming and fulfilling.
We’re also here to partner with you to alleviate the root cause behind hiding items as well as other challenging effects of dementia. Get in touch with us online or call us at (214) 295-8213 to learn more about our highly creative and specialized in-home dementia care in Southlake, Lakewood, and University Park, as well as the surrounding areas.